10 most common mistakes women make in sex
It has now become established that when a couple’s sex life begins and deteriorates, the main culprit is the man or escorts. It is the easy target of responsibility and hundreds of articles have been written with tips on how to improve it.
Certainly men have their own share of ‘mistakes‘ in the bedroom. However, before we can blame our partner and improve the quality of our sex life, we must first make sure that we do not make the same mistakes about sex.
Read below the 10 most common sexual mistakes women do in bed!
1. Women avoid asking their partner to get in touch
Many women are more concerned about how they will be characterized by their partner and want to maintain a ‘decent attitude’. In no case do they think of asking their partner to have sex because they believe that it should be done exclusively by him. According to Athens escorts, this is one of the biggest mistakes women make.
2. Worry about how you look?
Thinking about how you look during sex prevents you from enjoying yourself and your chances of having an orgasm. Girls, don’t think about the fat on your belly or the makeup on your face. According to Hellen Fisher, PhD, an anthropologist at Rutgers University, men do not even notice half the things that torment women!
3. Do you think sex means nothing to a man?
According to experts, we should forget the old-fashioned notion that women do not think about sex and that men are not romantic. For some men, sex is a very important act.
In a study by Dr Hellen Fisher on Greek escorts participation in one-night stands, the results showed that 50% of women and 52% of men said they did so in hopes of forming a relationship. One third of them did so. What is the lesson? No, girls are not the ‘I need to start one-night stands…’
The lesson is:
“Never assume that a man is not romantic”
4. Do you think men always think about sex and are always willing?
Most teenagers are always willing and ready to have sex at any time, but this is not the case for men. The stresses of daily living – family, work, bills – can ‘level up’ a man’s libido. This comes as a big surprise to many women, and often the lack of interest in sex is something we take personally. Relax… it doesn’t mean she doesn’t love you… she just doesn’t want to have sex… and what she tells you is no excuse!
5. You don’t say what you like, you don’t guide him properly and you blame him for not getting orgasm…
Talking too much about sex, what we like and what we don’t like, often makes us uncomfortable, even with a partner we’ve spent a lot of time with and feel close to. However, it is the only way to achieve a satisfying sexual relationship.
No man can bring a woman to an orgasm unless she takes responsibility for her sexual experience. Even the best lover may not know what his partner needs unless he guides her. So if you don’t reach orgasm, it’s mainly you who haven’t shown him how to do what irritates you. Being a man does not mean being a sex expert.
It is also important not to be ashamed of what you like as much as you may or may not consider them unorthodox. It is nothing strange about sex and most men will not judge you negatively if you reveal to them that you want to be egotistical or beating you. On the contrary, indeed. He’ll love it. If not, make him love it because it makes you happy and you need it to get orgasm. There are no compromises in this track.
The good news, according to Dr. Fisher, is that men really want to please women.
“If you can tell them in a way that doesn’t kill their ego, they will appreciate it”
6. You often complain about orgasm without actually having a reason
It is tragic for a woman to grunt, bite her lips, and pretend that she has reached an orgasm, only to have her partner’s morals dropped or the sex act to end an hour earlier.
It’s the worst advice you can give to a man who makes sense that what he did was enough to please you.
sexually hero and don’t try for anything more next time.
Women by nature want more effort than men to finish, and men know that. So they don’t find it offensive to them, the fact that you don’t always get orgasm. So you don’t have to lie. Especially if you never reach orgasm, then you have nothing to complain about. Instead, you have to guide him as we said above.
7. You are ashamed to try new things and think that he is asking for you because he is tired of you
Variety is the spice of life and when you are with a partner for a long time, it makes sense that it will ask you sometime to have something new sexually read in a magazine or heard from others in the gym and so on. Many women make the mistake and they take it personally, considering that their partner is sexually bored, they no longer irritate him, and for that reason he is looking for new things. Error! It’s not a bad thing to try something a little more kinky, something more risky, or more sadomasochistic. So for refreshment.
8. It is necessary to fall asleep and if you turn your back you are sleeping
After sex most women want to sleep with their partner or sleep on his arm or chest. Men still prefer to turn to the side because they simply start to numb their hand after a while or have difficulty breathing when lying on their breasts. It is completely normal and in no way a sign that he no longer loves you!
9. Focus only on his penis!
Just as women, besides oral sex, go crazy for caresses or bites all over their bodies, so men need care and attention to the rest of their body except the penis. This is a classic mistake of women who believe that with a blowjob, they have finished their work and resurrected their little boyfriend. Men also go crazy when they lick them all over their body and caress them. Also his testicles are not decorative! Don’t neglect them!
10. Allow the voices of your vulva or anus to seduce you and cause you shame and embarrassment
It is very common and reasonable when a man exerts pressure on your abdomen during the operation to cause gas to release to your anus. It is also very classic when you are very irritated and have a large flow of fluid in your vulva, to hear strange sounds every time a man enters you. Both cases are normal and there is no reason for embarrassment on your part. Keep the action completely indifferent to these sounds and don’t apologize to God. There’s no reason to even discuss it.
So it is clear from all of the above that women make just as many mistakes in sex as men do. For a perfect sex life, the couple must help each other and guide each other, or ask escorts Athens. Sex is not a simple affair but with the right communication it can be magical for both of you.